Breasts have been on my mind for as long as I can remember. When I was small, I wanted them. Then, when I got my first AAA training bras, I was a bit proud â€” and nervous. At 12 years old, when I was one of the only girls in my class with visible breasts, I was embarrassed. In high school, I was resigned, thinking they made me look boxy. Finally, in my 20â€™s I discovered the power of a properly fitting bra and began to make peace with these two floatation devices strapped to my chest.
You see, for years I thought I was a 36 C, because that was the size my mom was at the time (or so she thought) and I just let her buy me bras. As I got older, I stuck to the same size, regardless of weight fluctuations, thinking it was still right. Eventually, I grudgingly went up a cup size, but between the back aches and sometimes embarrassing bulges, I grew more and more resentful of my breasts.
After college, when I finally had a decent paying job, I discovered the glory that is the Nordstromâ€™s bra department. This place truly is a well endowed girls best friend. It turns out not only was my cup size wrong, my rib size was also wrong. One was too small, the other too big. Leaving the store after that first excursion, my head was held high and my back no longer ached. As the years passed, I became complacent, dependent upon my bra department of choice. Then, I got pregnantâ€¦and suddenly Nordstrom wasnâ€™t the best choice.
With pregnancy comes a whole litany of physical complaints, but one that really cannot be emphasized enough is the soreness that accompanies the beginning stages of milk production. Breast tissue swells, becomes inflamed, and just in general becomes a big olâ€™ pain in the â€¦ Well, you get the picture. At the time I was pregnant with the little guys, my local Nordstrom didnâ€™t have maternity or nursing bras (though they will adjust a traditional bra into a nursing bra for a reasonable fee). Thankfully, there was a specialty boutique near by that introduced me to the Anita brand of maternity and nursing bras. These are truly spectacular bras. I credit them with helping me avoid mastitis during the early days of nursing our little guy. Then, once specialty bras werenâ€™t needed anymore, I was able to go back to my old standby. Or was I?
Well ladies and gentlemen, apparently moving countries may put a kink in your plans to frequent your usual haunts. When it comes to bras that is a particular problem. Thankfully, in England I eventually found a shop called Bravissimo that does a pretty good job. They didnâ€™t sell maternity bras, but that was a non-issue at the time, so all in all, it was a win.
Now letâ€™s fast forward many months to the time when I found myself living in Sweden, desperate for a new bra because my current ones were approaching the end of their life span. Apparently, along with being generally tall, blond, and gorgeous, Swedes must also have breasts that defy gravity because try as I might, every bra I found had the most ridiculously thin straps imaginable! One hour in one of these bras was too much for my poor back. The bras are such an issue that a physical therapist actually recommended that a particularly busty friend of mine wear two bras for support. Two bras?!? Talk about torture…
Fast forward a few more months and now I find myself knocked up, with a litany of complaints, one of which is very unhappy breasts. After many, many desperate internet searches, I found myself on a pregnancy forum that recommended Anita bras (no surprise there). After perusing the website, I found a link that helped me track down local suppliers and lo and behold, there was 1! Yes, thatâ€™s right, 1. Still, in a country the size of Sweden, in a city that isnâ€™t even the largest city, that is pretty impressive.
That very night, I emailed the owner of the shop, asking if she carried the line (itâ€™s always good to confirm) and asking if she could accommodate my size (one never knows). She responded the very next day, assuring me that my bra woes would shortly be coming to an end. She even emailed me to let me know she was sick one day and the shop would be closed, so that I wouldnâ€™t make an unnecessary trip. Impressive. Very impressive.
Upon tracking down the shop, approximately two streets from a major shopping mall, in a building, up an elevator, and through a door, I immediately discovered that the owner (Lisa) was very serious about womenâ€™s support garments. Her tiny shop is packed chock full of bras, underpants, swimsuitsâ€¦itâ€™s impressive and a little overwhelming. Thankfully, Lisa herself is so knowledgable about her stock and womenâ€™s shapes in general that my visit was painless. She guessed my size after a quick perusal and was right on the mark. Her selection of Anita bras was extensive and thankfully, she carries many, many non maternity bras as well. This shop is now my go to place for bras. I even took extra business cards, which Iâ€™ve shamelessly passed out to friends, my brow girl, and even my midwife. Donâ€™t worry, I did control myself the time I almost stopped a passing woman to ask if she had heard of the shopâ€¦tact doesnâ€™t come naturally to me, but occasionally I find it.
Now, enough prattling. Itâ€™s time to get to the good stuff. The bras I brought home from Lisaâ€™s shop are amazing. I actually donâ€™t even notice my chest for large parts of the day. What a revelation! So, if you are in GÃ¶teborg and in need of a proper bra (maternity or otherwise), please stop in to Chia-AgenteurÂ at Ã–stra Hamngatan 50A near Brunnsparken. Lisa has limited hours, so make sure to double check her website or Facebook page, but she will make exceptions if you contact her and will schedule private fittings outside of business hours.
Until next time…